Oh man. I had this colleague who’s always complaining about everything.. well in her head.. it’s “opinion”.. not complaining. We were BFF in the beginning.. then I was slowly pulling away from her.. destiny wanted that I had to relocate next to her desk
After a couple of weeks staying in my new desk… she starts ranting about our manager again.. I could feel it that i couldn’t take it anymore… to make it short; I told her in a good and smooth way, that I would prefer not to hear her “opinions” anymore.. I was actually telling her directly that I couldn’t cope it at the moment.
She starts pulling her victim card, and felt disrespected and neglected. And also calling me out to be selfish and a bad colleague.
I seriously couldn’t care a shit about what she thinks about me.. cus hers perspective of me is non of my business.. I can’t control how she feels.
I told her I that I wasn’t being selfish/bad colleague but simply have to take care of my self care.
She telling me that I should take it as a compliment that she telling me all her “opinion”, because I am the one she feel close enough to tell stuff.
I asked her, why she need the feel to tell her opinion to me? (I’m a person that doesn’t take things THAT seriously, therefore I don’t waste my time overthinking).
There’s is some stuff you can talk about… I’m all about that.. I can have some stuff to talk about as well..
But she’s RAAAANTING over the tiniest thing.. she can pull up on everything no matter how good the situation is.. nope.. she has to have an “opinion”.
I’m not the only one that has the same thought about her.
What do you do with a colleague like her.?