In some ways I’m living what many would consider the dream. Former teacher turned stay at home mom of an elementary schooler and high schooler. I know I’m fortunate to not have to work and I feel in my position it’s my duty to give back so I volunteer at my kids schools as much as possible. I answer phones, make copies, work in the library, chaperone and carpool school events, whatever is needed.
I have noticed a definite shift in the way I am treated post COVID. I have definitely been given and offered duties such as attendance, lunch monitor, and crossing guard which previously would have been paid positions. I understand the public school infrastructure is struggling and I really don’t mind doing extra when I can. Hopefully the less money goes to things I can do the more can go to teacher salaries, materials for kiddos etc.What I do mind is the dismissive rude attitude I get from staff. Just this week I was scolded because a paid employee left her post (how is this my responsibility) and today was asked to work on a particular piece of equipment I was untrained for. When I expressed trepidation I was sent youtube videos, when the machine stopped working and I asked for help I was told by staff they didn’t have “time for this”, that I should try fixing it myself and it was tedious and difficult and to “have fun”.
If I’m lucky I will maybe get a summary thank you for someone at the end of my work. Some of these positions I am in a back room for several hours completely alone. I could quit but honestly I’ve volunteered in understaffed volunteer positions and they just spread the extra work out between the other volunteers or it doesn’t get done.
Just because I don’t get paid in money doesn’t mean my time isn’t worth something and that I shouldn’t be treated with a certain level of respect. I find myself somehow burnt out which is pretty sad considering I’m working for free.