so tonight while having dinner with my dad he gets on the topic how I should kiss my bosses ass and show him I want to move up in the job/company by bending over and kissing his ass and working hard and blah blah blah… cause that's how it works and you move up at places. proceeding to say I have done this for years i know what makes people move up and what doesn't and makes them stay stagnant and so on. well I am thinking first off why would i want to kiss my bosses ass with no return, mind you i get it a metaphor of speaking about kissing ass to get what you want. but what do you guess all think is that an old boomer way of thinking or is that still hold weight in today's work place?