This former job of mine (small business) really did a lot abuse from the past. My boss then somehow found out I was abducted.
Then the next week we have a work team dinner. She made jokes about Abduction. She wasn't talking to me directly but to someone else and it made me super uncomfortable.
What's bad is that she knows I almost got abducted as to why I couldn't come to work last week because I have to file a police report and go to an urgent care.
I confronted her about the joke and she responded it in the most abusive way. Really called me names (I was a weakling, I was a not respectful, I was not chill out so on), claimed I'm being emotional, and yelled at me. I was extremely humiliated. And customers can hear me.
I was in extreme emotiomal trauma as what she did was completely immature and unprofessional. I became suicidal due the things she did. The manager aggravated the issues as she blamed me too.
I had a bad panic attack while at work and my bf had to pick me up. He was really upset because he said this shouldn't happen to me in a workplace.
Next month, they wanted to talk to me again about the situation and she argues how the word abduction was a passing word. My boyfriend was there in that so called, “professional conflict resolution.” He discuss to me how that is even more uncomfortable and unprofessional.
I quit that job long time ago but it still affected me. She really personalized me for that.