Long story short the manager wanted to offer a promotion as alot of management has left in the last year. I said i greatly appreciate the offer but i will have to resign. Befuddled and confused she asked why.
Simple answer is i have managed before and do not want to be king of the idiots ever again. Now that a offer has been made and i will certainly reject i expect that my life here will become tougher due to hurt feelings of rejection so since im not about to be miserable il be on my way. Scratching her head as i walked out the door.