Someone help me understand how this is acceptable. I gave my workplace the notice that my wife is pregnant and that I will be having to take half days from time to time to make the appointments. My boss took a major interest in my personal life saying, “You life is super chaotic, your wife has no job security and is irresponsible. Honestly, you should abort the baby because we can't have you missing work.” Idc what your stance on the matter is, that is beyond inappropriate. Another instance, my uncle recently passed away. I told my boss I need time off for the service and to be with my family. She scoffed and said, “This is very last minute… What do you need covered?” Sorry I don't control life and death and can't have life work on my time. Another instance was during a meeting I host and run every week. First thing she says when she comes in, “I hate white people!” and then begins a 15 minute tangent on the matter cutting into my time to cover actual work matters. Oh and she is white herself… Needless to say, I am looking for new employment. I have talked with her early on in my employment and nothing has changed. Because of this, I reported her to HR and will be having a conversation with her boss. Please keep your politics out of the workplace and actually perform.