TW: CSA
My first post grad job, my older married bosses boss would schedule meetings just to flirt with me and look at me like a piece of meat. I felt uncomfortable and told him we could just communicate over emails and IM instead. He stopped giving me projects all together. Spoke to my direct female boss about it, and she asked me why I was so uncomfortable with him and told me to “go walk by his office a couple of times and talk to him about my life” and then asked me if I was touched as a child. This mentally ill psycho btch has literally opened up a thought in my mind that was never there before. I literally have PTSD from working at this shithole of a company and for the past 1.5 years have been thinking non stop about whether I was mlested or not. The first time I met this dumb sk*nk she told me about how she grew up in a trailer and had a drug addict sister and her husband was autistic and her BIL committed suicide.
I’m also muslim and been physically attacked and hatecrimed before, and one of the dumb psycho creeps I worked with would look at my LinkedIn DAILY and one day went off on a weird ass rant about how he wants to kill Muslims and blow up mosques. I told my boss about it and she said nothing was wrong with what he said then went behind my back the next day and told HR I said I “felt discriminated against” (those words never left my mouth). Soon after I got promoted and started reporting to boss’s boss. Got rapey DISGUSTING fucking DMs from my creepy b*tch new boss literally less than a week after from a burner account I will never be able to prove was him unless I get a lawyer involved. I tried to transfer dept, was given a very enthusiastic verbal offer from the other team, which magically got rescinded and I ended up leaving the organization.
Let me make it very clear I had insanely strong boundaries with all of these psychos and ever talked to them about my personal life and made it clear I was there to work and go home. The more I kept to myself the more they bothered me. They were all literally weirdly fixated on me and stalking me online even though my social media accounts were not connected to my name or number.
You would think I’m talking about some immature uneducated bums in dead ends jobs. NO, these were medical professionals in their 30s and 40s all with MDs/PharmDs AND MBAs in executive roles at a large health system that brings in billions in profit. Mental illness is so rampant in this country and I’m sick of it.