I just had to decline a very good position with my states Department of Public Safety because I don't use social medias to stalk my old employers. I couldn't use old co-workers as PERSONAL references(explicitly stated in the paperwork) because I am a home body and don't go out so the only friends I have are old coworkers(F me for having a small circle). I'm applying for a JOB not friends, why the F do I need personal references? I tried so hard to work with them to work around these restrictions and they just said nope sorry.