I started a new job for the first time in over a decade. I thought I would be at my last job long term and worked so hard but I was forced out and my career was over. I am struggling with the new job bc I feel like it is a prison sentence to stay here awhile to get my retirement vested. And I feel like everyone is already friends with each other and I have no one to talk to and the days drag on. But then part of me is so wary to put myself out there bc I was burned so badly by friends and my former boss at my last job. Is there any way to not look at a new job as a prison sentence?