My coworker gave feedback on a job I did. She set some requirements, ignored me when I asked questions, complained it took too long and then complained some more because I didn't implement some stuff she didn't mention in the first place.
She publicly complained where other coworkers where present and they just blindly agreed with her or said nothing. After that she found it necessary to send me a private message claiming I should read better, not just copy what she asks and should learn to think. I said I won't be treated this way and she just went 'but I am frustrated you are not doing exactly what I wanted.'
she changed the requirements 3 times and when I pointed that out she said again I should read better or at least think about what she is writing. This is bullshit.
I went to HR and the only thing they were willing to do was set up a conversation with no repercussions but just to ease the conflict.
I'm done.
I'm drowning in work, nobody wants to listen when I point this out, I know what my flaws are but receive no support to better this whatsoever and just have to sink or swim and now this? No thank you.
You may do your best and put so much effort in and receive nothing in return. I started drinking again to cope so I know I should leave.
It's just so weird, I'm so used of being in this environment I don't think anywhere else is better. Goddamn