I work in Airforce IT. A serious field. My boss and my co worker have gotten much too cozy with each other on the job and off. They call each other, bro and discuss home life, sex, hot females, you name it… Everything this co-worker does is correct, even if it's not. He has botched so many linux commands and is a total brown noser. He's admitted to lying his way through a job more than once. They hang after work, at work they wear matching do rags in our Airforce facility when I got told I could not wear a tee shirt. When something happens, they have blamed it on race. They are black, so they lost security access is their reasoning one day when their token was disabled. Secure access isn't lost for kicks.. It is not racial if you lose your admin rights. Fucking a yall. I've yet to find a tech job that is a safe landing zone for me, a female, and one who just wants to learn. I have four months. I wish I could tell if something is toxic sooner. I am considering heavily leaving this field.