We are all just brainwashed into thinking work is our identity and purpose in life.
What do you do when you are off of work? Listen to music? Play a video game? Hang out with friends and/or your community? Ever wanted to join something that can help people or the oppressed? Make art? Hang out with a distant family member? Date a guy/girl or meet new people? Travel?
Read the book Capitalist Realism by Mark Fisher. We are brainwashed into thinking capitalism is the only way to go in every society. It isn't. Our lives can instead be revolved around community, togetherness, cooperation, and passion (What is Anarchism, by Alexander Berkman) .