I’m constantly being put down/ordered around at work by management and it’s making me want to quit.
Every little detail of what I do and how I say it is belittled and it’s making me think less of myself… I can’t be happy in an environment when I feel like I have to change myself to make others happy.
One time I offered to sort out a task and a manager ignored me. Then they stood up and said I’m going to do [task] now as if they never heard me in the first place.
The same person also didn’t trust my word on a fact I knew – they had to go and find out themselves rather than go with what I said was true…
Another time, I was using a computer at and a manager told me to get off it, despite another computer being free, and then opened and started looking at the exact same thing I was working on – as if they didn’t trust me at all
The straw that broke the camels back was not being able to select availability for holidays – I then told a manager about my availability and they told me off for being too direct. I’m so confused. What am I supposed to do? Be assigned shifts and then say I can’t work them at all?