one- no one asked to be born in a society were you have to pay for everything.
and two- the cost of living is expensive and you can’t sign out of it without dying. even self sustaining hermits who live in the woods have to make a living somehow.
many of us are not given a choice and forced to work even if the work sucks your soul and doesn’t pay well so don’t feel bad when you reasonably resent that and how hard it is to make a living. I don’t think we’re lazy, i think many of us would be happy to work if we could sustain ourselves with one part time job with a livable wage and reasonable expectations.