Check my post history for more context. Yes, I am looking for another job. Yesterday, Wednesday, my boss tells us she’s gonna be out of town this weekend (Friday-Sun) and someone needs to volunteer to work over the weekend. I told her I really couldn’t because I’m going to be out of town all weekend celebrating a family birthday and traveling somewhere with spotty service and I’m just not going to be able to take calls but I can check email periodically and be available late morning on Sunday to take calls after I return. I tried to accommodate her. She snapped at me and said “Well it’s just not really fair because you never work weekends” then she goes “oh well I guess I will just have to cancel my trip” She saw my face when she said that and was like “It’s not that I’m asking you to cancel your plans I just always have to work weekends.” At this point my coworker chimes in and says she will cover it. This is salaried position where we are not expected to work weekends but sometimes need to follow up on a few things . I didn’t have anything happening over the weekend on my end, so I planned not to work. There’s never been a time where she has specifically asked me to work through the weekend before this.
I stood there almost in a daze because I couldn’t believe she tried to guilt trip me over this. Even worse is that this was in front of half of the office. I slumped back over to my desk after this and she called out “Next time I’ll try to give more of a notice” which means that she knows that this was shitty planning on her part, but still expected me to drop my plans to convienence her.