Not sure if this is okay to post here but I’m trying to leave my job without them knowing I’m trying to leave, but the only thing is the new ones I’m interviewing for are asking for references so of course I’m putting some past employers but the ones I put down haven’t been getting back to the hiring managers.
Does anyone know how I can get around this or should I just bite the bullet and tell my employers I’m looking elsewhere? I can’t be here much longer, it’s going to end up killing me.