To my coworkers: please for the love of God stop asking me for my socials, I had said no and will continue to do so for the past year and a half. Same goes for hanging out after work, you're my work friends, that's it
To my manager/boss: Stop trying to continously guilt trip me after I say no to attend the Christmas party or sign up for a secret birthday cake exchange (you buy 1 cake a coworker that's randomly selecteds bay and ect) , I have said no as nicely a possible about 10 times, stop im getting irritated
I go to work to well work, that's it, if i happen like then ok sure you're my work friend but I'm not hanging out after work . No I'm not attending every work event, I see you everyday as is I already know what you look like. I don't even celebrate mine or my siblings birthdays , why would I buy a coworker a cake? Also poor and take the bus
Accept my boundaries and stop pressuring me ffs