So I find my new vp to be very contrary to who I thought I interviewed with. we talked about empathy and mentorship and a sense of camaraderie in the office and its not by any means hostile … But I’ve already had to stand up to some mean girls …. And this new boss barely looks at or speaks to me. She’s v passive aggressive. She’s very avoidant. I thought I was going to be collaborating with this person. :/
I’ve made a handful of errors in these first 60 days and when I have, the feed back is so shame based and devaluating of all the other work I have done successfully. It feels more like she’s training a dog.
I’m shocked because I didn’t see this coming in the interview. And I’m not as tolerant of crap in my lates 30’s. so I can def like stick it out but I’m wondering … has anyone ever been in a similar situation ? Does anyone have advice? Thnx