there has been conflict at my work lately (between my coworker and a manager) and management's solution to this is that we all need to spend more time together and they would like up to go out regularly for dinner, activities, etc (outside of our regular schedules). my coworker and i could not think of anything we would like to do less. we are are looking for help to form a polite response, pretty much telling them “fuck no”. they have not offered to pay us overtime for this, but in the case we did go out with them, i would mark it on my time sheet.