When I talk about something that I've done that makes someone else angry, I'm told that it's on me to change myself to make others less angry.
When I talk about something that someone else has done that makes me angry, I'm told that it's on me to change myself to not get so angry at others.
I don't actually know if other people exist or not. I assume they do. But one way or the other, one of those previously described scenarios is completely absurd.
If other people exist, then it's on them to change themselves the same way it's on me to change myself. If they don't, then everything should be coming up me because I'm the only one that exists (and it doesn't).
Something isn't right here. I don't know what, exactly, that is. But it's something.