I started a new job at a small animal hospital. My job is pretty demanding as I handle finances and paperwork, which I don't have an issue with, but it can be stressful. Combine that with higher staff that don't know how to communicate, A bad HR system, getting sick with COVID-19 again, and someone who thinks that you're a creep and boom…
Long story short about the last part… A former romantic interest works where I work, and I only say hello to them in passing. Apparently they didn't like it because their father saw me in the parking lot at work and confronted me about it. When I told my boss about it, she was furious. The only outcome we could muster was that the guy was trespassed and to just avoid the girl.
A night or so later, I get a call from police saying “A third party said someone matching your description saw you outside where she lives.” Which angered me because I have no idea of where she lives. The police did seem empathetic, which is probably a sign that they dealt with them before.
I told my boss and when we discussed it further, she pretty much explained that an investigation would go through, to which I told her… “I just want to let it die.”
After all, it seemed like no matter what progress I made it just gets worse.
Recently, I tried to explain to my boss… I'm tired of running, tired of feeling like I have to hide. She said she wasn't crazy, with her answer being, “Just avoid her as good as you can… I'll think of something.” That combined with the stress of everything else? I feel like quitting, but I can't yet until I find somewhere else.