Month: September 2023

I work for my father and uncle(dads brother) Im in the process of moving on from the business. In the short term something that promised to me that is no longer on the table. I need some advice and i maybe in my own head about this. Im worried i wont mix in well with the new environment. Am i right to be konda scared? I can tell you my dad is one of the tuffest people ive ever worked for so working with the boss isnt my concern its working with people who didnt work with there for the last 10 years Idk anyone in RL whos experiencing this sort of this i think i just need perspective.

so i’m (m20) on my 4th job and been here for a month it has been amazing compared to last jobs so far! pay is shit ofc but that’s america, and i just make food for a theatre. free movies a nice perk too. fortunately the gm is the only manager people really don’t like, but i had an annoying no communication thing happen w my fav manager. i am a full time student online, have a gf i love more than anything who lives on campus 30 min away, and a lot of shit that has happened my life to contribute to my anxiety i am medicated for. so i have a lot on my plate alongside work. on my availability sheet i said i can only work 4 days a week max, as i am a full time student and have to work most weekends because it’s a…

I like my job at the place I work. It is a contract job and I am trying to branch out and work with the company itself. I believe that my job site supervisor blocked me from getting hired on with the company because she wanted me to stay in the position I am to save her headaches. I have seen her do this to another person who works for another contracted company as well. I have stayed with the company because I love the shift, I am a lead and its not a hard job. However, I drive 40 minutes one way to work and they are beginning to put more restrictions. I was dressing business casual and now they want me to wear a uniform. ( I hate my company uniform)…. So with all of that being said, am I just being childish?

Here's my background. I'm 31 and I graduated a few years ago and took my first “college educated” job. Even though I have been there almost two years, I still barely make enough to pay rent in my area, so since my parents are okay with me living at home, I do. My boss (the rich owner of this company) overheard me say that my favorite thing to do is to go home, eat dinner and watch TV and then he made a smartass comment about my “mommie fixing my food”. The d*ckhead has joked about me being skinny and quiet too. I would just love to tell him to f*ck off one day! Fuck you BL! Rant over.

My wife and I keep cutting back, and we're getting significant raises, but yet we keep going further and further in the hole every month. Restocking the fridge and freezer is now well over $500 a month. Mortgage is up, taxes are up, fuel is up. Pile home maintenance costs, transportation maintenance cost, credit card interest and student loan payments. We're both in 50k careers. We would need to make double what we're both making in order to actually pay down our debts and have enough money to live. How is this possible? How can two people working full-time salaried 40 to 70 hours a week, keep getting further and further behind despite cutting unnecessary spending? How in the fuck is this okay to anyone? It's getting to the point where I'm strongly considering criminal enterprise, despite the fact that we both work government related jobs. I'm exhausted, I'm frustrated,…