ever since i put my two weeks in i’ve had to endure hearing my bosses shitty jab comments. yesterday i heard some more things but wasn’t sure if they were about me but today it was confirmed that they were. basically said that he didn’t need to fill my position and he was tired of hiring young people with no drive or ambition. + a bunch of other shit. mind you, i have put in less effort since they have disrespected me so badly. i quit because they treat me terribly and i want to go back to school and pursue a different career. i decided to call HR today (bosseswife. this is a family owned place. lol go figure) and do the respect of letting her know i was leaving and would not be showing up for my last day (tomorrow)
i was immediately met with hostility and defensiveness, she told me i would never grow as a person, and to keep being me and letting life knock me down. i explained to her that i have dealt with constant berating and belittling. she says that i am making assumptions. i tell her that when everyone i work with comes and asks me if i’m okay i am NOT making assumptions. everyone here can see how i am treated because i am the youngest.
this really struck a chord with me. i suffered an abusive terrible childhood/teenhood and i have done DAMN well for myself and worked my ass off since i was 15. i have had 0 help from any family and do extremely well for myself.
ive already quit, so i feel relief. but i fucking need to vent. i can’t believe she made the situation that way. i fully expected her to do what an HR person should do and tell me to leave my work credit card and key on my desk. but no, she completely ridiculed me. what a fucking c word.
edit: i did get to end the convo with telling her she was condescending, & never comes to the store anyways so what the fuck would she know & hung up on her while she was still yelling. LOL that was so fun to do.