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I keep getting toxic managers and I am burnt out and tired of crying

Hi all, This won’t be that long but I need to vent to people who understand. I am 31year old female living in Ireland. Qualified individual with a degree in tourism and qualifications in hotel management and ability to speak different languages. Ever since I moved to Ireland, my life has been really good in every aspect apart from work. I always managed to find jobs but all the job managers were toxic AF. Now maybe you guessed it, I work in a Hotel and I have been working in hotels for now 10+ years and i have been trying so hard to get out of it but can’t. I just attract hotel managers. Last week I got called out because I was late 4 minutes to work. I am always on time or punctual usually so I got so annoyed when the manager started berating me how “ you’re…


Hi all,

This won’t be that long but I need to vent to people who understand. I am 31year old female living in Ireland. Qualified individual with a degree in tourism and qualifications in hotel management and ability to speak different languages.

Ever since I moved to Ireland, my life has been really good in every aspect apart from work. I always managed to find jobs but all the job managers were toxic AF. Now maybe you guessed it, I work in a Hotel and I have been working in hotels for now 10+ years and i have been trying so hard to get out of it but can’t. I just attract hotel managers.

Last week I got called out because I was late 4 minutes to work. I am always on time or punctual usually so I got so annoyed when the manager started berating me how “ you’re not taking your job seriously, your head is in the clouds, you don’t communicate enough”. I just shut up and took it.

Today the other manager which happens to be the owner was angry at how I replied to an email and told me that is not the way we reply to emails.

The cherry on the cake is ; i asked for some time off, a week to go back home as I have severe health issues and I have important appointments that I can’t miss. They were not happy with that, wanted proof of my medical history and said I should travel in Jan and February.

I am at a loss, I am just tired.

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