I work for a private daycare, after leaving other teaching positions due to my inability for a work life balance in such careers. Taking on a position where I would be paid by the hour, have smaller class sizes, and working for wealthier families(this would mean less coming out of my already empty pockets for supplies.) I started over a year ago and it is becoming more toxic and understaffed every day. My personal time is spent lesson planning, and when I ask for extra time on the clock they turn me down. I have never had a negative observation or write up. I am a hard working employee, often coming in early and staying late(not fucking paid.)
I recently had a performance review, where I was rated very average. I was told there were two small goals to work on, nothing to do with my daily work. At the end, I asked about a raise and my boss was confused. I explained that I had been working for them for over a year, doing the job of two teachers. They offered that we create a performance plan, and after 30 days we could review it. I felt so disrespected and have started to look for new positions(the only thing I have ever done is teach, so I’m not sure what I want to do.) I wanted to be professional, giving two weeks before quitting.
Well, last week my grandmother died. My handbook states that I can take three paid days of bereavement, as well as however many unpaid days are needed. I took three days for travel, family time, and other needs. The day before leaving, I was asked to cut down my time off due to staffing issues. I apologized for the inconvenience, but was serious about taking my time off. After this, my bosses rudely asked questions regarding my grandmother and her services. What was her full name, where and when will services be held, just quickly spit firing questions. It was very off putting, and my boss finished up with “we just want to send flowers.” They did not send flowers, I want to walk in this morning and quit. I can substitute teach for equal or more than what I am making now, and start almost immediately. It wouldn’t be permanent, but I wouldn’t be working for these assholes anymore.