I (F 27) started a new role recently which has not lived up to expectation (doing tasks not in job description, more in office days than promised). Something I really love is fashion. I’ve always made myself presentable to work: clean black/dark or khaki pants, Colourful (hi cut) tops, and chunky knit cardigans. Colors and textures are very important to my self expression. Today my boss tells me I need to start dressing formal, wear slacks instead of black pants and khakis, and no more bright cardigans. It really took me aback, especially since it is really only us two in the office and no one sees us aside other staff on campus, if ever. I was already struggling with reasons to continue to go to work and this really set me back.