Obviously, I'm not NOT appreciative of her help. We live in a city where rentals, especially affordable ones, are hard to come by. She happened to know someone who was renting out an apartment at an affordable (affordable for the area, not very affordable for me) price. My husband and I still don't make enough to afford our monthly expenses. I asked her to compensate me for extra hours I had been working and she went off at me about how ungrateful I am given what she's done for me. Lesson learned.