The conversation between our boss and my husband 2 days after his mom's funeral:
Boss: I'm very disappointed you didn't get all the schedules done before you left.
Husband: I did my best and I got 5 of the seven done.
Boss: It's your responsibility to get them done before you leave.
H: I understand but I wasn't going on vacation. I had to go plan my mother's funeral.
Boss: I was wondering when that would come up.
This isn't a big faceless corporation either. This is a 30-40 employees company. We are definitely NOT all a “family” here.