I got paired with a very disturbed man to put it nicely. Like a man who would randomly turn on people and talk about how he wanted to lay hos hands on me and sent me various aggressive texts with some that go from midnight to the early morning.
Edit: (apologies this situation has been going on for awhile and is annoying me) my former employer and his Network implied that me having an issue with the liabilities this man presented and his conduct made me ableist because they framed him to be unable to control himself and that they need him and that they like him and not me; they also implied that he's like alladdin and only trying to provide for his family as if I was asking to report him. This seems to be rooted in how I've been paired with horrible coworker candidates in positions or have has issues with peers and relatives who have behavioral issues because of being neurodivergent and inexperienced. This guy rarely taught me anything directly and most of those examples are barely more efforted.
I cannot really take this to court because the real important experiences were not on texts and everyone is defending him; I keep getting paired with these types and they're supposed to teach me things, which to me seems like a set up to make me leave especially because of being autistic and bisexual which they made very clear disturbing them.
I wonder if I should defend myself or what because this job is tied to my personal life and seems like they're potentially looking to validate their contempt with me with digging into people from my past who are mad that I was an edgy talk back teenager.
There's people who acknowledge this mistreatment, but seem to make this meta and the neutrality of it from acknowledging it to being apprehensive with me really feels off.
I worry about this affecting future opportunities because where I live is a very social networky state like my gym knows people who are connected to them and my old job is connected to my family, it's like a small town but an entire county with like 15 or more city surburbs
Oh BTW I've been diagnosed with autism, anxiety, and ocd and happen to bisexual, which that said worker who is allegedly a victim of me (because I told on him) constantly attacked me on my issues and implies that I need to be in psychiatric help because I got passionately indignant with him and the other people with behavioral issues like wanting to get physical and making up extreme lies along with being indignant about the constant mistreatment with workers also being insubordinate with me on things like road work and dispatching me, because allegedly I wasn't enough like them.
I guess this is why we don't work with friends and family.