Since handing in my notice at the church, the head pastor at the church asked for a meeting, expressing unhappiness about my sudden decision. I justified my choice, but he criticized my work hours. Saying I work the least hours of anyone in the building. I defended my efforts, but he insisted I stay, dismissing my reasons. Standing firm, I repeated my decision. When questioned about not discussing my interests in leaving with him, I mentioned a past incident where he aggressively criticized me for wanting to leave. I explained that I chose to inform my direct supervisor this time to avoid a repeat. He denied the past aggression and suggested I shouldn't hold onto it. The manipulation here is truly bewildering.
As he realized he couldn't control me, he acted childishly, telling me to leave. I asserted my right to depart without justification and called out his gaslighting. Ready to move on from this place.
Why can’t I just leave in peace?