In my adolescence I was convinced by society that if I worked and studied hard I would be rewarded with an amazing career and be fully satisfied with life.
I went through the educational process and got an undergraduate degree (zoology). Discovered I couldn’t get a job with that and went for a masters degree (couldn’t get a job), so carried on through to PhD.
Finally got a job but only lasted 3 years. Being two full time working parents was hell and the cost of daycare pretty much negated my salary anyway.
I realised my time was better spent raising my four children. I admit to be fortunate that my wife earns enough to allow me to do so. I am in my mid 30s and no longer care about a career any more and am happy to coast through and devote my time and energy to my family.