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Boss is excluding me from meetings and favoring one colleague

So im in a project i created on my own in september. did this until January alone And then two others members joined. Let’s call them Susie and Kate. (Fake names). At the beginning whenever there were meetings with senior people, we were all invited to get the full feedback. My job is to analyse all data and create all graphs on BI tools. Susie is to find the reauirements for us before we make these graphs or code any data tables. Recently in the office, I heard Susie in 4 / 5 meetings presenting our project, with my boss and without me and Kate. Susie is not our boss. My boss never asked us if this is ok and he knows that we know the exclusion. I asked Susie twice if there was going to be a meeting about the graph tool and she said no. I saw her…


So im in a project i created on my own in september.
did this until January alone And then two others members joined.
Let’s call them Susie and Kate. (Fake names).

At the beginning whenever there were meetings with senior people, we were all invited to get the full feedback. My job is to analyse all data and create all graphs on BI tools. Susie is to find the reauirements for us before we make these graphs or code any data tables. Recently in the office, I heard Susie in 4 / 5 meetings presenting our project, with my boss and without me and Kate. Susie is not our boss. My boss never asked us if this is ok and he knows that we know the exclusion.

I asked Susie twice if there was going to be a meeting about the graph tool and she said no. I saw her later… on that meeting in the office presenting MY GRAPHS. St the end she said I’m off on vacation if you have questions contact my colleague (me). Today Kate and I were finally added on email chain…. It started with “as discussed yesterday”. Proof that she lied about “not being in any meeting”

Susie also noticed I made one mistake on one graph months ago (during a time my boyfriends dad was dying of cancer…) and I think she might have told the boss behind my back that I’m incompetent. She constantly tells me requirements for graphs and then two days before the deadline, she tells me she forgot to give me all the Data fields for the table and I have to start all over again and rush to finish stuff in 2 days instead of the 2 weeks we were allocated.

I am so exhausted of this ans feel so unappreciated especially when I started this project. Feels whatever I say my boss favors her. How can I express this in a polite constructive way to him?

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