Me at work I'm trans (important later)
Boss: Hey want X promotion?
Me: sure
Later
Trainer for new position
T: hey just so you know this is a training for X + y
Later
B: Just so you know because it has Y the raise is actually doubled
Me: cool
Later
T has misgendered me repeatedly to the point that I'm debating the promotion.
Coworker : hey this is X+Y and our raise is going to be $
T: You aren't allowed to discus pay it's against the law.
Me in my head: actually telling us that IS against the law.
Me actually : nodding along acting my wage because I can't do anything about that at the moment, but considering asking to go back to my previous role.