I'm currently working 50-55 hours a week and not even making $50k annually, been at my job for over 3 years. I have minimal savings to speak of, and I have no time for anything fun or productive on the weeknights. Just go home, eat, and sleep. I'm exhausted on the weekends and just want to rest. It's gotten so bad I have had dreams about being at work while asleep. This is not sustainable.
Other than winning the lottery, it feels like there is no way out. I can't imagine trying to do this with kids and a spouse.