I'm 22M and just got out of the army and just started working for the first time in a long time.
I first got a job at some fancy restaurant as a waiter and got fired after a week (which I admit I suppose it's my fault since I didn't learn the menu) but the bosses were kind of rude and distant.
Now I got another job as a waiter in a chain coffee place/restaurant and the mangers are very rude often calling me an idiot and in general just being kind of mean… (since we have an ear piece at all times I'm constantly hearing yelling in one ear) which is making me want to quit.
I admit I'm not the brightest or swiftest and I often look like I don't care (which is just how my face looks…..) I understand that this could annoy some people but idk.
I can understand being rude and serious in the army but I find it hard to take seriously here….
Is it like this at all places?