Advice on how to tell my boss I can't attend a work event. I've been declining to go to work events that are not on days when I am in the office which is now one day a week. This is the third work event I have declined to go to and I'm entry level which probably looks bad. The thing is these events happen days when I'm not in office and I have a part-time job right after. With my part-time job I already got a lot of accommodations to work for them (I worked full-time for them before in the past) and they are already super accommodating with my schedule changes. With commuting time that's going to be a lot of time just dedicated to work and I won't be back in time for my part-time job and I also don't want to shorten my part-time hours. Not sure how to go about this.