For context, my birthday is tomorrow and I requested tomorrow and the following days off to visit my father for my birthday. I haven’t been on our online schedule for 2 weeks as we are scheduled two weeks. Yesterday at 11pm my boss emailed me that he accidentally didn’t put me on the on-line schedule and he expects me to be there from 6pm-2am. Obviously I have many things to do the day before I leave for a trip. I’m very anxious about it. My boss is abusive often with swings of emotion and vague threats like “are we clear?” At the end of his messages and emails.
I’ve got a lot of other family issues going on as well, I’ve worked the last 6 days in a row, my grandmother is very sick and today is the last day I can see her before I leave. Looking for any advice. Will provide more context if asked. Very anxious right now so don’t know how much sense this post is making.