I know this is r/antiwork and i joined this community as i share the same vision. But really this 'gotta hustle' totally depends on the family/spouse themselves. 50% families i've seen in my life prefer dads who always be available because employers can change their employees, but a father can't change his family; while the other 50% prefers sacrifice, and their reason is more obvious. There are far more broken homes I see because their father didn't sacrifice enough. Out of 2 families in their economic hardships, one which their father sacrifice/left his family most of the times to do anything he can do to feed his family, and another one which is always available for their family and doing 9-5, the former have higher chance to have long lasting family, while the latter will be sued to divorce on the following year. Because the former is seen as a responsible father, while the latter is seen, both by his family and the society, as a lazy man who only loves to have sex and breed but isn't willing to feed the children he seed
I know dads out there are facing a difficult dillema of juggling between career and spouse/family. But in this capitalist system, often times they are forced to take the most realistic option to keep his family intact, under the pressure from the society also. The one explained in that Shannon Scott's 'Gotta Hustle' LinkedIn post being one