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My budget silenced my mom and her husband about bootstrapping.

A few weeks ago my family invited me to my brother’s 21st birthday at the local casino and I told them I couldn’t afford it. I could pay for gas to be there but I don’t have money in my budget for pocket money fordrinks, gambling etc. I told my mom that I could be present but I didn’t have money to spend. He husband was saying I needed to make a budget so I did. I make 52k in a HCOL city, live alone and here is my budget Rent – 1200 Credit Card 700 Best Buy – 100 Car Insurance – 57 Tuition 140 on the 5th of the month until 12/5 Electricity 100 during summer 50 during fall-spring 1200+600+100+57+140+100= 2,197 Medications – 35 Apple Music – 20 Apple Care – 11 ChatGPT – 22 Disney+ – 15 Prime – 16 ICloud – 2 Hulu – 9 35+20+11+22+15+16+2+9=130…


A few weeks ago my family invited me to my brother’s 21st birthday at the local casino and I told them I couldn’t afford it. I could pay for gas to be there but I don’t have money in my budget for pocket money fordrinks, gambling etc. I told my mom that I could be present but I didn’t have money to spend. He husband was saying I needed to make a budget so I did.

I make 52k in a HCOL city, live alone and here is my budget

Rent – 1200

Credit Card 700

Best Buy – 100

Car Insurance – 57

Tuition 140 on the 5th of the month until 12/5

Electricity

100 during summer
50 during fall-spring

1200+600+100+57+140+100= 2,197

Medications – 35

Apple Music – 20

Apple Care – 11

ChatGPT – 22

Disney+ – 15

Prime – 16

ICloud – 2

Hulu – 9

35+20+11+22+15+16+2+9=130

2197+130=2327

Weekly deposit $725

Monthly = 2,900

2900-2327=

573/Month Left not including gas or groceries.

Gas is $50/week x 4 = 200

573-200 =273

$273 a month to eat and for any emergencies.

I did my budget and sent it to my family group chat and not one person said anything!!!

Idk what bootstraps I have left to pull up.
I have an AA and BS degree and am working on a Python applications certificate at my local CC.
I have 10+ years of work experience in my field and a solid portfolio. I have been applying for jobs and getting interviews but get ghosted in the end. I really am at my wits end with the US. I wish my grandparents never came here from Central America. My grandfather lived the American Dream while I get the American Nightmare.

I know I’m not the only person feeling like this which is the sad part.

/end rant

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