I'm 22 and neurodivergent as hell. I have gone through like 7 jobs since i turned 16. I enjoyed one of them (5 hrs a day cleaning past closing hours) and i'm okay with my current job (4-8 hrs a day apartment reconstruction aid working with a family member) my every other job (cashier, 3 shift freezery technician, sales assitant, office data entry and sales,..) made me extremely miserable and without a doubt some of these jobs made me suicidal.
I'm in a long term relationship and in the past two years i've been realizing i'd probably be the happiest as a childfree housewife, taking care of the home and pets and all the chores that go with it and being able to give all my energy and joy to my husband, cultivating a happy home.
I definetly think every woman should have a choice on whenever to have a career or not, be married or not, i just feel like this option has been taken away from women like me. Fuck the girlboss mindset they sold to women. I'm here to thrive and be pretty not slave away 40+ hrs a week and leave my home and marriage on the sideline.
I'd rather do the 40+ hrs a week unpaid housewife duties over a high stress high paying job. I just wasn't made for that.