I (M24) was a communications manager for a local synagogue. I got COVID during the High Holidays and I was fired.
A month after I abruptly lost my income and my health benefits (two weeks after I got them might I add) she messaged me on LinkedIn asked me why I left- I told her that the congregants treated me like shit (which was true, they treated me like a glorified secretary).
Long story short, she takes the job and now she has decided it's her duty to message me everything. She has now taken it upon herself to message me advice for my next job, telling me that it's my job to be a self starter and work on projects without being prompted to.
I have ADHD. Sometimes I spend a little more time on my phone than needed, yeah, but I'm not lazy. I just need a little guidance, which is why someone has a manager.
Due to the past weeks, I'm considering just blocking her. I'm tired of hearing how I wasn't good enough for a job that fucked me over.
I guess I'm looking for advice. What should I do?