So… I ended up getting the bad ending. If you read my recent post on this subreddit then here is my update if not read this first please https://www.reddit.com/r/antiwork/s/rjOR7k3aOX
I am sorry if this doesn't belong to this subreddit but you guys give me great advice and this is the most reliable subreddit here since my last post.
So today my mom came to have a “talk” with me and had to talk to me like I was trafficking cocaine over fucking getting a new job but thats not all.
I lied to my parents about many things and when I told my mom I was getting interviewed by WinCo and she told me I am not allowed to work at WinCo but I went to the interview anyways, timeskip to today because I am not going over it again my mom had to talk to me and yell at me because I lied about working at Safeway and went to WinCo and I got emotional like a dumbass and yelled back and we had a screaming battle then my step dad intervenes and tries to calm me down and even said “Safeway demoted you I know because I called them” which I found insane he called my employer and I explained to him why I left them because…
- People got promoted over me
- Some lady in the deli nearly sliced their finger off and still got to stay while I got taken off for a false reason
- Some dipshit co worker pinned my hand down for trying to bag wrong groceries I thought was the same order
And the first 2 my step dad justified my old manager's actions with “He may have showed up 4 hours late but he follows directions thats why he got promoted over you” and the 2nd was “She got to stay in the deli because she followed directions” and even shrugged off the 3rd one and told me to “suck it up” which made me enraged in the inside because I literally follow directions at work all the time but I have more trouble with it at home because its fucking home as my mind is more relaxed and my step dad thinks I do the same stuff at work for some reason. So now I am being punished by my mom with driving restrictions and get this, I have to takeout $200 from my paycheck for the next 3 months and give it to my parents as punishment and fuck no I am not doing that and even my mom told me I have to stay at WinCo so if it goes to shit I am forced to stay for a year regardless of how badly its fucking up my mental health and pushing me to suicide, “Work sucks, there will be people you don't like but you need to suck it up and I don't care how bad it makes you feel” which her saying that honestly terrifies me, she doesn't care how much it pushes me to suicide and just tells her own son to “suck it up” beyond shocked me which is now noted in my mind permanently.
I lied to them about a lot of shit which I feel like shit I had to lie because if I told the truth the same fucking situation would have happened and I would have been blamed for my situation at Slaveway like I did today so why even tell the truth? I had a terrible habit of lying likely because of strict parenting I dealt with since 2012.
So to sum this up I will repeat, I have to pay $200 of MY earnings to my parents as punishment for 3 months which is insanely absurd but the driving restriction part is more understandable but I don't understand why they had to say “You have zero work experience” when I have 2 years of retail work and my step dad even had to pretend I was never going to be employed again because of his stupid hypothetical question I never been asked in a interview “Why did you transfer jobs so much?” When I only ever did it twice in my life and I couldnt answer because I never been asked that and he said my lying wouldnt work and my mom doesn't care how badly WinCo would fuck my mental health up if they go bad and just wants me to “suck it up”, I am beyond shocked my parents don't even understand despite me blatantly being fucked over by management at Safeway and bringing up how WinCo will never promote me despite the store manager there starting from Cart Clerk and they even said they will make me a cashier but they had to bring up that I am bad at math, like sure I suck at math but they have a system that tells them how much change you owe and its not like you have to do mental games and after all the shit that happened today I called my brother and begged him to just drop the mortgage and get an apartment to rent and he told me “just chill we will get the mortgage next month” like I need to move NOW!!
End of rant, forgive me if my grammar is terrible because I am so stressed and upset right now. My parents plan to go camping next week and I am not fucking going after today. Fuck that.