I worked my ass off in my early twenties in a career I had a passion for and have almost nothing to show for it except depression, debt and loneliness. I realized how stupid that was when I can get a boring office job for way more money and work from home. But now I have no passion and most days I feel numb. All so I can live in a safe area and pay my 1800 dollar rent, my 400 dollar car payment so I can go to the grocery store and pay my 500 monthly food bill and my 200 internet/ phone bill. By the timeI switched to wfh I had no friends left because we lost touch because I was stressed to the max everyday and curled up in my bed after work and didn’t talk to anyone for years. Now I’m 31,. No dating life, no social life. I don’t even have money to spend extra because I’m too busy catching up on debt, and my 401k contributions that I didn’t get to add in my first job when living in survival mode. I don’t even know if it’s gonna be enough to retire with in 35 more years. I tried having a second job before but that was too stressful and I physically gave up after a couple of months.