Part of my job is making sure that other people did their part of the job correctly. When they do their part wrong it's my job to correct it. When I point out that they keep doing their part wrong I get told it's MY JOB to catch that.
Okay, so essentially their job is really MY job? And if I point that out it means I have a bad attitude? I guess I have a bad attitude then because if I'm doing their job WTF are they doing?
Standing up for yourself is having a bad attitude. I actually learned this lesson in 1st grade when I objected that the rules for boys in class weren't as strict as the rules for girls. Mrs Lennis told me she didn't like my attitude. 50 years later I still think that sucks. Bad attitude for life