The US seems to praise the overtime, whatever it takes, workhorse mentality. I work in an industry where overtime is common and expected. Those who work the most hours and make the most family sacrifices seem to be congratulated as if what they’ve done is overwhelmingly positive instead of negative. Although I don’t get paid for overtime per say, I make good money so it is somewhat justified. Lately though, I am just not sure the money is worth it. I say this being regulated to a dingy hotel room for weeks at a time, away from pastimes, pets and family as I work 12+ hours a day to finish a project. I’m exhausted and cranky and I just feel atrophied—my mind and body. I’m middle aged and have no time. I want to enjoy life and my hobbies. I would love a 40 hour work week where the work wasn’t so extremely taxing. I’d even take a pay cut to do so.
Anyone else take a pay cut for better work/life balance?