“Like I mentioned – time off is your responsibility”.

told the manager who offered me a job i already planned and paid to go out of town two months from now. to see family and this is the response. i kinda struggle with working these traditional jobs i either stand up for myself and others and i get fucked to the point to where i want to quit or end up being fired. if i try to be flexible and accommodating at all i don’t get walked on i get trampled on. should i tell them nevermind find another barista