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Need advice, wwyd?

My boss and I have been having some issues, well, ever since he started, but it's really coming to a boil this past month. He bullies me, lies, and only gives me remedial, boring work. Tells me he'll help me promote, give me a flex schedule, but only IF I meet my “core duties”. He won't tell me his expectations or priorities. Yesterday in a meeting about my recent performance review he attacked my self- esteem, misrepresented multiple situations throughout the year to try to make me look difficult, and is hypercritical. It's the personal attack that really hurt me and I'm embarrassed. I want to call out sick today and tell him it's because of what he said in the meeting, cc his boss and one of the co-workers for whom I have a project due today. I probably shouldn't drop the ball on my coworker like that. Or…


My boss and I have been having some issues, well, ever since he started, but it's really coming to a boil this past month. He bullies me, lies, and only gives me remedial, boring work. Tells me he'll help me promote, give me a flex schedule, but only IF I meet my “core duties”. He won't tell me his expectations or priorities.

Yesterday in a meeting about my recent performance review he attacked my self- esteem, misrepresented multiple situations throughout the year to try to make me look difficult, and is hypercritical. It's the personal attack that really hurt me and I'm embarrassed.

I want to call out sick today and tell him it's because of what he said in the meeting, cc his boss and one of the co-workers for whom I have a project due today.

I probably shouldn't drop the ball on my coworker like that. Or drag them into the drama.

What would you do?

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