I'm done with this shit already.
Two months ago I was at a sales job for 2 days and got sexually harassed and attacked for my sexuality(unbeknownst to my boss because i didn't even bring it up) and so I didn't bother going back. Basically i was told there was no reason for my existence(being attracted to not just the opposite gender). Also i have sibling who are LGBTQIA and they said some prettu disgusting thing about it not knowing my ties. So I just quit it was my second day anyway.
Fast forward i found another job at a hotel. Not only do i get to deal with racist coworkers who will be blatantly racist in front of minority guests and behind my minority coworkers backs, I also get to deal with sexist jokes with another person in my department.
Both incidents happened in front of my boss.
Both within 2 months of my employment.
Both times I had to speak up and shut it down and my boss either laughed it off or said nothing.
Both times i pulled my boss aside and told him i hate having to do that.
Both times he said just take it with a grain of salt and he appreciates me bringing it.
Jokes keep getting made from a coworker particularly derogatory towards women and often quite lewd. This man is much older than me.
Does this man know that his sexist jokes are not funny to the women around them? Idk i reported to HR as well just in case, to another woman, and she said it wouldn't be sweet under the rug.
I am shaking from anxiety as because I am a SA survivor, shit like this rattles me, and i tend to be on guard for good reason. I hate it.
There is a time and a place my dudes, and for the most part being a sexist asshole really doesn't have a time nor a place, but especially in the workplace.